Raise a Preteen Who’s Safe, Smart and Confident Online
Without Big Serious Talks, or hoping “nothing bad happens”
THE POWER-UP PLAYBOOK FOR PRETEENSÂ
Gives kids aged 9-12ish the tools to navigate sextortion, consent, porn, deepfakes, and toxic online influencers with confidence, clarity, and critical thinking...
...so you can sleep at night.
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You’re Doing Your Best…But It Feels Impossible To Keep Up
Your preteen is growing up in a world where:
- Sextortion scams are targeting kids younger than ever
- Porn and explicit content show up before they even know what it is
- Influencers are pushing toxic ideas about gender, power, and relationships
- AI and deepfakes make it harder to tell what’s real—and what’s manipulation
Meanwhile, you’re left wondering:
- What do we need to talk about? Where do I even start?
- Did I say the right thing—or too much?
- What if something happens and they don’t tell me?
- What if I wait too long… and miss my chance?
You don’t want to scare your kid.
You don’t want them to tune you out.
And you definitely don’t want TikTok teaching them stuff you wish you’d taught them first.
But knowing what to say—and how to say it—can feel overwhelming.
OMG you’re always so up to date, I love it and appreciate it SO much.
- Parent
This is such a helpful series. We are giggling together throughout.Â
I love the inclusive language, clear explanations, and the humour... and all the things.
- Parent
You have made my life easier by giving the tools to have a continuing conversation with my sons.
- Parent
Your preteen doesn’t need more rules. They need skills.
That’s exactly why The Power-Up Playbook for Preteens exists.
Instead of vague warnings or one-time talks, your preteen gets:
- Clear, age-appropriate explanations
- Critical thinking skills that grow with them
- And reassurance that if something goes wrong, they’re not alone
And you get:
- Word-for-word scripts for hard conversations
- A shared language to run with
- And peace of mind that your child is prepared, not just informed.
Here's What Makes The Power-Up Playbook Work:
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🎯 It's designed specifically for preteens (not watered-down teen content)
🎯 It's engaging, relatable, and funny—so they actually want to watch
🎯 It's practical and digestible—focused on skills, not shame
🎯 It's built on decades of experience teaching thousands of kids
🎯 It’s equally valuable for kids AND parents.
Instead of telling kids what not to do, this program shows them:
- How to spot red flags
- How to trust their instincts
- How to ask important questions
- And how to protect themselves and their friends
This is prevention through empowerment.
What’s Inside the Power-Up Playbook
Module 1: The Consent Code — Yes, No, and Everything In Between
Consent isn’t just about sex—it’s about respect, boundaries, and choice.
In this module, your preteen will learn:
- How to clearly give and ask for consent
- How to recognize when someone else is saying “no” (even without words)
- Why consent goes both ways
- How to accept a “no” with kindness and respect
Why this matters:
These skills form the foundation for every healthy relationship—now and in the future.
Module 2: Mission Critical — Outsmarting Sextortion
Sextortion is rising—but paranoia isn’t the answer. Preparation is.
Your preteen will learn:
- How sextortion actually works
- The common tricks predators use
- What to do immediately if they’re targeted
- Exactly who to tell—and why they won’t be in trouble
The core message your child hears loud and clear:
“If someone ever threatens you online, it’s not your fault. You deserve help—and we’ll find it together.”
Why this matters:
Knowing what to do before something happens can stop panic, shame, and silence.
Module 3: The Manosphere Unmasked
Some online influencers sound confident—but push deeply harmful ideas.
This module teaches kids to:
- Spot toxic messaging around gender and power
- Question stereotypes and “alpha” myths
- Understand how misinformation spreads
- Choose respect over fear and control
Why this matters:
Ideas shape behavior. This module helps kids build healthier beliefs—before harmful ones take root.
Module 4: Critical Thinking — Your Online Superpower
Not everything online is real—and kids need tools to tell the difference.
Your preteen will learn how to:
- Question clickbait and influencer agendas
- Understand deepfakes and AI manipulation
- Think critically about porn and unrealistic portrayals
- Ask smarter questions before believing or sharing content
Why this matters:
Critical thinking protects your child far beyond elementary school. It’s a skill they’ll use for life.
Parent Tools
(Because This Is More Than Just Videos)
The Power-Up Parent Peace-of-Mind Guide
A simple companion guide to help you continue the conversation and reinforce key messages naturally
The Power-Up Parent Conversation Starter Guide
Short, pressure-free prompts you can use at dinner, in the car, or whenever it feels right.
The Power-Up Parent Resource List
A thoughtfully curated list of trusted, up-to-date resources you can turn to if and when you need more support.
…And you get unlimited access for one full year!
As someone who also supports children, youth and families, I am also trying to keep informed and up-to-date so I can offer the best support possible.
Your work helps me do this.
- Parent
“What if my child is too young?”
“What if they already know some of this?”
“Do I have to watch with them?”
“What if I’m not tech-savvy?”
“What if we’ve tried other programs and they didn’t stick?”
“Is this inclusive?”
“How long do we have access?”
Just wanted to thank you for such valuable content and for carving a comfortable path for parents. So incredibly helpful! 🤩 I told my 10 and 7 year olds that we have some videos from you to watch and they were both excited.
- Parent
Be Proactive, Not Reactive
You don’t have to wait for a crisis.
You don’t have to hope your child “figures it out.”
And you don’t have to navigate this alone.
Give your preteen the tools they need to be safe, smart, and confident online.
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